Comments by Jessica - September 21, 2009
You hit the nail on the head, yet again.
It occurred to me the other day that morality, honesty, and tact [are] quickly becoming things of the past for certain generations and well, for people in general.
You are right about needing a hero to lookup to, someone that could put a stop to this immmoral defecation. The main problems? We are all looking for someone to blame rather than someone to fix it. Not caring who we hurt to make ourselves look good. Having no respect for those around us, etc. Growing up, my parents were strict. We had curfews, manners, respect, and honestly cared if we got into trouble (which was rare) or if we hurt someone's feelings.
Self interest is what is important now.
I can't tell you how sad it made me the other day that my nine year old daughter kind of snickered when my husband pulled my chair out for me at dinner. I thought about it later that night and told her about the respectful way that things used to be done vs. the way that gallantry is quickly "going out of style."
If people don't smarten up soon and go back to basics, whilst turning their moral compasses to point toward the straight and narrow; what virtues we have left and our sense of what's right, good, and wholesome will die away.
Comments by Sue - September 21, 2009
A great article. I SO needed to read it. This has been a demoralizing few weeks. Is health care legislation driving all of this venom?
Comments by Kat - September 21, 2009
Excellent piece Jim – it needs to be screamed from rooftops – something has got to wake us all up. I truly fear for our society.
Comments by Letty - September 21, 2009
Thank you so much.
Already had a thank you because I forwarded this to a good friend of mine.
Comments by Richard - September 21, 2009
Amen!
About 50 years ago, Johnson & Johnson had a promotion, Emergencies Don't Wait Week. I was at the Ruder & Finn PR firm and we handled the account. I went with a very young Jim Burke, a New York sales exec with J&J, to the NYC City Hall where the mayor issued a proclamation about the Week.
Comments by Loretta - September 21, 2009
Thank you for the wonderful article(s) Jim. My wish for you is that you not only post such assessments and educations on your own blog, where you are engaging those who already know and admire you, but that you try for a wider audience as well. Articles on this have appeared in the New Yorker, LA and NY Times and local papers...I hope you are submitting your writing at least from time to time in order to continue establishing yourself as a point person for issues of ethics, but to build your audience.
Comments by Marcy - September 21, 2009
I would like your assistance, advice, counsel. How I can subtly get your message across to my many friends & relatives, who forward mean-spirited, bias e-mails, which seem to spew rhetoric from the likes Fox News characters. These folks mostly live in mid-American states, where I am beginning to wonder if they receive any other viewpoints.
Comments by David - September 21, 2009
I appreciate your focus on responsibility, the responsibility of citizenship and of decency.
Comments by Jean - September 21, 2009
Thanks again, Jim. It is wonderful and I passed it on to two friends...
Comments by Leslie - September 21, 2009
We are living in very challenging times to say the least. This is compounded by the incivility. I go for many days in a row when I don't watch the news, the talk shows or read the paper. It's the only way I can deal with the insanity all around us. This morning I was listening to NPR and the discussion was all about the latest ACORN scandal.
Comments by Amanda - September 23, 2009
Good article and asks interesting questions. I wonder, though, has America really ever had a good moral compass?
Comments by Gary - September 23, 2009
Well stated Jim: "...responsibility requires that we practice the necessary self-control..." Great article, as usual. Thanks for keeping us thinking and on our toes.
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